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问题不在孩子身上,避开权力之争让亲子关系融洽

时间:2019/7/4 10:25:04 阅读: 次

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甘肃11选5 很多家长说起孩子的叛逆行为,都连连摇头,认为是孩子无可救药,不听自己的,其实这是一种误区。孩子会叛逆,很大的原因是因为家长的说话方式有问题,导致家长和孩子陷入了一种“权力之争”。


什么是权力之争?


ERTONGXINLIXUEZHUANJIALUDAOFU·DELEIKESIZAI《HAIZI:TIAOZHAN》YISHUZHONGXIEDAO:“BULUNSHENMESHIHOU,DANGWOMENMINGLINGHUOZHEQIANGPOHAIZIZUOSHIQINGDESHIHOU,JIUHUIDAOZHIQUANLIZHIZHENG。”


甘肃11选5 FUMUTONGGUOGEZHONGFANGSHIXIANSHIZIJIDELEQUANLI,RANHOUHAIZIMENXIANGFUMU“XUANZHAN”,BUYUANSHOUDAOKONGZHIHUOZHIPEI。FUMUSUOYOUDUIHAIZIDEQIANGZHIHUOZHENYADOUHUIWUXIAO。


JIAZHANGRANGHAIZIZUO,ERHAIZIBUKENZUO,JIAZHANGDEYUQIYUELAIYUEQIANGLIE,HAIZIDEDIKANGYEYUELAIYUEQIANGLIE,TAHUIDINGZUI、JUJUEHUOZHEYONGSHENTIXINGWEIBIAOSHIFANKANG,ZHIDAOSUOYOUPANNIXINGWEIBAOFA。


家长与孩子为什么会陷入权力之争?


1.没有满足他的好奇心


甘肃11选5 HAIZITIANSHENGJIUSHIHAOQIBAOBAO,TAMENDUIFANSHIDOUCHONGMANLETANSUOYUWANG。BIRU,TONGSHIJIADE1SUIZUOYOUDEXIAOBAO,DANFANJIANDAOZIJIBUSHUXIDEWUPIN,JIUYAOSHENCHUXIAOSHETOUZHANGKOUCHANGYICHANG,HUOZHESHISHENSHOUQUMOYIMO。CHUYUANQUANKAOLV,JIAZHANGHUIJINZHIXIAOBAODEZHEIXIEXINGWEI。YINWEIHAOQIXINDEBUDAOMANZU,XIAOBAOJIUHUINAOXINGZI,JIUERJIUZHI,TAMENJIURONGYICHANSHENGPANNIXINLI。


2.没有得到应有尊重


WANFANSHIKE,YAYAMAMAXINKUNONGLEYIZHUOZIPINGRIYAYAXIHUANCHIDECAI,DANBUZHIWEIHEYAYANEITIANJIUSHISHUOCAIHENNANCHI。MAMANAIXINDIWENJIYAYAYUANYIN,NAOMINGBAISHIYINWEIMAMAQIANGXINGGUIDINGYAYABIXUTANGANGQIN,BUZHUNYAYAGENXIAOHUOBANWAN,DAOZHILEYAYAXINQINGYUMEN,SUOYIGENMAMANAOQINGXU。QISHIYAYAMAMABINGFEIGELI,HENDUOSHIHOUJIAZHANGBINGMEIYOUZHUYIZUNZHONGHAIZI,ZHEIJIUJIQILEHAIZIDEBUMAN。ZAIYOUJIUSHIYOUXIEJIAZHANGDANGZHONGPIPINGHAIZI、TIFAHAIZI,ZHEIXIEDOUHENRONGYIRANGHAIZIYOUPOGUANZIPOSHUAIDEXIANGFA,JIUPIANYAOGENJIAZHANGZUODUI。


3.家长的唠叨


“XIEZUOYELEMA?”、“ZENMEHAIBUXIEZUOYE?”ZHEISHIGUAZAIJINYINZUISHANGDEKOUTOUSHAN,TAZONGSHIDANXINERZIXUEYEGENBUSHANG,SUOYIBUDUANDITIXING,FANFULAOTAO,SHIJIANYIZHANGYERANGERZIXINFANYILUAN,SHICHANGGENMAMADINGZUI。QISHIHENDUOSHIHOU,JIAZHANGDELAOTAOYEHUIJIQIHAIZIDEPANNIXIN。


4.以家长意志为中心


甘肃11选5 WOMENZONGSHIYIAIHAIZIWEIMING,JIYUHAIZIHENDUOTIAOKUANGDEXIANZHI,ERZHEIXIEXIANZHIDOUSHIYIJIAZHANGGERENDEYISHIWEIZHONGXIN,LIRUTIHAIZIXUANZEXINGQUBAN,GUIDINGHAIZIXUEXISHENMETEZHANG,ZHEIXIERUGUOBUKAOLVHAIZIGERENDEAIHAOYUXINGQUDIAN,YERONGYIRANGHAIZIYOUDUILIQINGXU。


家长怎样做,才能避免与孩子的权力之争?


1.站在孩子的角度去理解


NANNANCONGYOUERYUANHUIJIAQINGXUJIUBUDUIJING,MAMARANGTAXIANXIEZUOYE,TAJIUJIANCHIYAOCHIWANFANKAISHIXIEZUOYE。NANNANMAMAMEIYOUPIPINGNVERCHANGFANDIAO,FANERSHIWENHEDIXUNWENTA:“NANNAN,SHIBUSHIZAIYOUERYUANYOUSHENMEWEIQU?”“WA,JINTIANYOUGETONGXUEQIANGZOULEWODEWANJU。”NANNANDUIMAMASUSHUOLEWEIQU。


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2.家长学会转变自己的角色


甘肃11选5 JIAZHANGYAOXUEHUIZHUANBIANZIJIDEJIAOSE,WOMENZAIHAIZIDECHENGZHANGGUOCHENGZHONGZHISHIYIGEYINLINGZHE,ERBUSHIKONGZHIZHEHEDUCAIZHE,RUGUOZONGSHIYONGMINGLINGDEFANGSHIQUSHITUKONGZHIHAIZIDEXINGWEI,SHIBIHUIZAODAOHAIZIDEFANKANG。


3.家长批评要掌握分寸


ZHUMINGJIAOYUJIALVBINSHUOGUO:“FUMUZAIPIPINGHAIZISHI,QINGJIHAIZILIUDIANMIANZI。”YIXIEXINGJIDEJIAZHANG,ZAIDUIDAIHAIZIJIAOYUWENTISHANG,WANGWANGCAOZHIGUOJI,YIDANFAXIANLEHAIZIYOUBUDUIJINGHUOZHEZUOCUODESHIHOU,JIUBUGUANBUGUDEYANSUPIPING,HENDUOSHIHOUHAIDANGZHEQINPENGHAOYOUDEMIAN,HAIZIMIANSHANGGUABUZHU,ZIRANJIUYOUNIFANXIN。SUOYICONGMINGDEJIAZHANGYIDINGYAOZHANGWOHAOPIPINGDECHIDU,YUYANBUNENGDAIYOUGONGJIXING,ERQIEYAOFENCHANGHEJINXINGPIPING。


昆明起点学校李老师结语:


甘肃11选5 MEIGUOZHUMINGXINLIXUEJIATUOMASI·GEDENGBOSHISHUO,“HAIZIDEYIQIEFANCHANGXINGWEIDEBEIHOU,DOUSHIWEILEMANZUZIJIDEZHENGCHANGXUQIU。”MIANDUIHAIZIDENIFANXINLI,JIAZHANGYAOLIXINGDEKANDAI,BUYAORENWEIHAIZIJIUBIANHUAILE,BUKEJIUYAOLE,ZHIYAONIYONGHELIDEFANGFAJINXINGYINDAO,HENKUAIHAIZIJIUKEYIZOUCHUPANNISHIQI。


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